Some Reflections

Its been a year plus since the breakup with The Ex-Domo and about 5 months plus into my relationship with WH.I have figured out that maybe there was a reason that i went through a not so ok relationship to use a milder word to describe it.When i was with The Ex-Domo,i was immature,selfish and basically a all-rounder brat.i had fights for the sake of having fights but maybe it was both ways as well.It was never right from the start but yet i refused to see that side.i tried looking at the glass half full when it was not even one quarter full at all.

I will admit i'm stubborn.I'm very stubborn to a point whereby its my way or no way at all.i'm not someone who compromises easily although some people might say that i'm soft hearted.With The Ex-Domo,both of us are equally stubborn and equally hot-tempered as well.a lot of times,i compromised and ended up,i never felt contented or happy as i should be.a relationship should be give and take on both sides but from my observation and as well as my friends observations,it feels like i was the one giving instead of receiving as well.

After having been through such a relationship,i learn that i appreciate WH a lot more than if i never been through that relationship because i would have taken WH for granted and the relationship would just crumble.i'm still a spoilt brat in a way but i guess i mellow down a lot more now.

With WH,i won't say its all sunshine and paradise,we argue and fight as well but we both compromise.He knows when its his mistake and i know when its mine.we both apologise to each other no matter who made the mistake because that's what a relationship is,compromising on both ends to keep each other happy.i feel this content feeling and happiness with WH that i never got with The Ex-Domo or anyone else.

Maybe this is what a good relationship feels like.content and happy even with certain arguments here and there.we never argue for long.if we feel that we need a time out then we time out for a lil while but usually we would apologise almost immediately.

on another note,i have serborrheic eczema on my face so its annoying me like mad :( btw i went to David Choi's showcase last sunday with WH and it was so awesome.his voice was so good.i will do a write up about it later.for now,goodbye